Pixel’s Central Axiom of Dating

This applies to people 25 and older:

The man you meet with whom you feel have a connection is more likely to be a jerk who knows how to manipulate women than a soul mate.

Corollary:

A guy who makes a good impression at the bar or social event is less likely to be a good boyfriend than the guy who doesn’t.

This is often (perhaps incorrectly) summarized as:

Only scoundrels are good at first impressions.